There's a saying that in the life from before the womb, our children choose us to become their parents and that we receive the children we need to change our lives for the better. I can barely imagine what you've been through, though, as a parent, I've been dealing with some unexpected health issues of my little baby too. Children indeed help us find unthinkable strength in ourselves! While it appears that we're the ones doing all the hard work, they are the ones doing all the hard pushing!