Parenting is neverending work on a construction site. You have a vision for this beautiful building and work hard, day and night, to make it rise. There's a lot of dust, and squeaky sounds, someties accidents, delays, hopes. We all work hard towards turning our vision a reality. Yet sometimes, no matter how much we try, and fight, and struggle, things don't come out as we hoped. We can only live and learn. All parents do their best. All children do their best. Sometimes, one's best is not enough and no one is allowed to judge.