Lew, I too was struck at the sight of the "victimhood pays" comment and how much appreciation it got. Then, I found your comment and wanted to bow my head to you for putting things into such a positive perspective, one we should all be looking forward to. Then, I came here, read your story, and wanted to tell you how much I resonate with what you said. While I haven't highlighted 100% of your story, I 100% agree with it :D