Happy I have followed Story Taller's recommendation to read this piece of yours, Rick! You're really hitting the nail here.
So many people get into "fights" for the sake of being right. We often condemn things we end up doing ourselves. And control... well, let's just say it's one of the things we need to learn to control more than anything else :)
After all, it comes down to that saying misattributed to Gandhi - be the change you wish to see in the world.