Haha, I guess everything is more manageable when you blame it on the science :)) I love the mechanisms you have developed to cope with what your adorable wife and kids are putting you through every day. And while I'm disorganized too - though not in the Hiroshima-wreckage style you described - I'm here to testify for my husband that children train you to grow your resilience on clutter like nothing else. Our son throws the tiny Lego pieces on the stairs when he's upset, so we often end up sliding on small but humongously annoying pieces of LEGO while rushing through the house.